10 men reveal why they are no longer attracted to their partners: "It is hard to keep alive desire and eroticism!"
The intimate attraction between two people, especially between two partners who have a long-term relationship, can fluctuate over time.
It is influenced by the physical, mental state and what happens in our lives at one point. But what do you do if you discover that it is not just a phase, but that you are no longer sexually attracted to your life partner? Can you get over this? Is there anything that can be remedied? Or is it time to end the relationship?
Here are some disclosures posted on the Reddit platform of some men who realized that they are no longer attracted to their girlfriends or wives and the reasons why this happened:
I finally learned that the grass is greener where you use it
"After the honeymoon phase of a relationship, it is easy to please yourself, stop appreciating what you have and stop striving to keep your desire and eroticism alive. I went through a period when I was less attracted (and less attractive) for these reasons – but all of these saddened me and made me want my change. I finally learned that the grass is greener where you use it. Apart from the physical aspect, you have to give time to your relationship, share new experiences with your partner and even sometimes take the distance to get the desire and the longing. Things have been wonderful since then and I'm crazy about my wife, "said one of the men.
"I am going through this phase now. We have been together for six years and we have been married for two years, and I no longer feel attracted to her and I no longer have an erection. I'm only 26 years old. I know there are some problems in our relationship and when I do not have an erection it gets annoying. She doesn't let my heart tell her what the reason is, but I think she feels our relationship is coming to an end. ”
He never has the initiative when it comes to sex
"He has no hobby and stays in front of the TV for days …
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